Good Day,
I see many great offers to you from quite a few alliances. Several of them are great options. I have always known War Phoenix and Active Allies to be class acts, if I were forced to choose between two of them.
Another option is to take a look at Eminent Domain. We're a very serious warring alliances and are currently on our way to War win #140 tonight(nearly a done deal at this point). We use Discord for communication, and are part of a family of alliances called Operation Oligarchy, which includes Last-Outlaws!!, Eminent Domain, Hobbit Zombies, Nation's League, Dark Ages and our feeder alliances Tree Fort.
One beautiful sell on the chat app Discord is that Operation Oligarchy is the driving force behind the DomiNations Prime server of nearly 100 alliances of like minded, fair warring alliances.
So even if you don't end up liking it at Eminent Domain, there are dozens upon dozens of other alliances there you can speak to.
Download Discord and add me Ambria-EminentDomain#7803 and it is case sensitive. I can get you going from there and help you find the best home for you and your people with the least amount of bouncing around.
We want stars, we take them!
Ambria of Eminent Domain