Can l go against the grain here and say what does it matter what anyone says?? Presumably this is a person you've never met? Then why should their comments affect anyone in any way??
Firstly, I'm not condoning what they say. Secondly, I'm not making excuses for their behaviour. I just think that jerks like that are not worth the angst, not worth our intellectual or emotional energy. Just kick them from the alliance and dont give them a 2nd thought.
Society will always have its lowest common denominators - not worth worrying about.
I have to agree with
Ravenlord on this one.
I read some where about 25 years ago in a beetle bailey comic strip and it has stuck with me even till now.
It goes something like this.....
Sargent was giving beetle bailey a whole lot of crap over something but he was all smiles.
Then his buddy asked beetle why he was still smiling even after Sargent was yelling and shouting at him.
Better bailey replied something like this..... 'Why should I let others determine how I should fell.'
I know I might not mean much to many. But it was so strong for me that it has totally changed my out look on life.
Hang it in there buddy. That guy is not worth the trouble
sponge.