After reading from page 1 to 4, I think there's just no way to make the cheaters think otherwise. Also, instead of raging and yet knowing there's a high chance your rage won't be heard, why not cheat yourself? I'm not saying you have to cheat all the way, but only when you are certain that you got attacked by cheaters. Just replenish your lost gold/food based on the attack logs (or if there are no attack logs, just replenish to what you remember last time).
If you decided to abuse the advantage and become a cheater yourself by maxing your gold/food every time, then it's your own decision. Good for you if you can control it and only use the cheat to replenish your stolen loots from other cheaters. That way at least you guys don't need to stress about stolen loots from cheaters.